The Only Natural Cure for Premature Ejaculation
That Really Works - Permanently!
By C Greg Henderson
However, medication, sprays, creams, etc. don't really provide a cure. They merely help solve the problem on a "night by night" basis. That leaves PE-sufferers dependent on continuing to purchase products of one sort or another for continual symptomatic relief. The operative word here, is "symptomatic." It's kind of like driving down the road in your car, looking down at the dashboard and noticing that a red emergency light is flashing. What do you do? Symptomatic relief is like putting a piece of black electrical tape over your red flashing emergency light. That way you simply don't notice it so much. But, does it really fix the problem? Not hardly. The good news is that these symptomatic-relief-type aids can help you get through the night. The bad news is, most are only marginally effective, and you're stuck with them and their less-than-ideal results.
Wouldn't it be great if you could just fix the problem, like you could with your car's red flashing light? That begs the question: "But, how?!" You may not really relish the prospects of the pain, slow-recovery and expense of surgery. Many men are reluctant to undertake surgery "down there." They worry. Besides, what if it didn't work? What if the surgery doesn't go well and somehow the problem gets worse instead of better? Sadly, some men, frustrated with the continual humiliation of PE and tired of all the PE-relief disappointments, retreat and find themselves avoiding any associations with women that could potentially lead to a romantic interaction. Nope. Don't even want to go there.
Fortunately, PE doesn't have to be permanent. It's not an incurable illness. It doesn't have to remain a permanent dysfunction. In fact, there actually is a natural and permanent solution. You can cure your PE. While there are some things you can do to help you last longer tonight, there are also some things you can do to cure the problem, entirely.
Actually curing the problem takes a little more time and effort on your part than the short-lived quick-fixes. Before actually discussing some of the "how to" on this part, though, we need to discuss some of the root causes of PE, and actually understand what it is. Technically speaking, premature ejaculation is simply ejaculating before you want to - before your partner is completely satisfied. As I mentioned before, it's all too common. An estimated 1/3 of the sexually-active guys out there suffer from it. You may wonder, "how is this actually possible - 1/3?" Well, remember, an important part of the definition is dependent on whether or not your lady is satisfied. The "average guy" lasts 2-6 minutes before ejaculating with penetrative sex. The "average woman" takes 5-15 minutes to experience an orgasm with penetrative sex, and some women take 30 minutes or longer. So, even if you're "normal," that doesn't mean it's ok.
Who wants to be just "ok" in bed? Ok isn't optimum, particularly now. You may be wondering why I say, "particularly now." Well, you've probably noticed that sex gets a lot more air time now. People discuss it openly. It's used to sell toothpaste, even. We watch lots of romantic scenarios which unlike 50 years ago, are now on prime-time tv. And then there's porn: lust for profit. The point is you've been exposed to lots of lovemaking on screen and you have developed some unrealistic expectations of yourself. And you're not the only one! Girls/women have those same expectations, and now that they're "liberated," they expect to be satisfied, too. Gone are the days of a woman laying in bed compliantly, just waiting for her partner to "finish his business and roll over." Now men are under pressure to perform. And if you've spent a fair amount of time watching porn, you may be mentally trying to compete with a porn star who has the benefit of a script, a partner who is paid to act like she's in ecstasy, scads of retakes, and a film editor who's paid to make the star look like he has the stamina of Godzilla. It's ridiculous.
So, what has happened to you? Why do you have this problem with PE? Well, there are a number of scenarios and variation on theme, but the basic thread is lots of porn and inappropriate masturbation. In the process of that combination, you may have gone through periods of your life when you masturbated on a daily basis. You may have found it a great way to relieve your boredom, or your anxiety - whatever. Your motivations helped get you here, but they don't really matter at this point. The key is retraining your sexual responses so that you can satisfy your lover:
- You will have to learn how to control your thinking and focus.
- To retrain your ejaculatory reflex, you'll need to become more aware of your body's stages of enhanced sexual stimulation. You need to watch your breathing and slow it down if it starts to escalate out of control, and eventually completely control the timing of your sexual arousal.
- You'll have to desensitize yourself somewhat.
- You'll need to begin an effective program for strengthening your perineal muscles. This is critical for optimum control. It's so important, that I put together an honest no-b.s. review of a 100% natural system that enables you to finally get control of your PE permanently, without expensive surgery, creams, sprays or pills.
This dysfunction doesn't have to plague you forever, dooming you to a life of sexual frustration and feeling incomplete. You don't have to feel inferior to other men, or continue to be victimized by premature ejaculation. You can actually cure it naturally!
How would you feel if with absolutely perfect control, you could last as long as you want -- (and never again face unfulfilled expectations from your partner...)? Wouldn't it be amazing to outlast your lady and have her clamoring for more? If this was something that you thought was possible only in your dreams then this article on my site may be one of the most important you ever read...
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